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2.1.
PHILOSOPHY OF THE PROJECT
2.1.1.
Which kind of community?
Projetorgone
is built on a user-friendliness in love emotional and sexual, i.e. is based on
the natural love, tenderness, affectivity, and a free sexuality called "polyamour"
associated instructions
.
It is necessary to include/understand by there the absolute right of each one to
initiate and living the spontaneousness of emotional and sexual relations
nonexclusive of its choice, very as much as its desire of insulation, but also
taking part in a cordial climate incentive with the contact with all and all.
The project thus requires participants having made the choice create bonds
emotional, sexual and simultaneous multiple duels with the other Community ones.
This attitude is of nothing incompatible with one or more privileged
relations open couple.
This project is contrary to the traditional communities of couples.
It
is also based on values humanistic, ecological, of division and gift. Concerned
to the catastrophic evolution of planet, the Project will make an effort by the
choice of voluntary simplicity, to leave the chain overconsumption/necessity to
gain money-stress and fatigue/passivity.
2.1.2.
With which?
This
project will be a space of the possible ones. A space of innovation, a workspace
for artists, craftsmen, therapists, gardeners, workmen, engineers, vegetarians,
creators, farmers, in love with all kinds...
This
project is addressed to people who, by a long way of personal development :
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exceeded the traditional couple and
generally decided to give up any form of possession and project on the other.
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acquired autonomy and freedom, et is concerned to
gather to live differently
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are eager to meet in a more fraternal practice, the
not-possession, a reality, and not in a philosophical Utopia.
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sufficiently reflected on themselves to
be able to say what they bring to the project, and in what their personal
project can be incorporated in the Orgone Project
Projetorgone is addressed to all, men, women, children,
of all ages. Credits, pensioners, without work in the current system of company.
The fact of having to live in a company which cuts us
systematically meeting with the other ages impoverishes the love, reduced the
vital dynamism. This one remains only in the exchange, the mixture, osmosis.
2.1.3.
Couples or single people?
(We
include in this chapter of the data already described in the general
information)
A
community, most of the time, lives rather in semi-autonomy, often isolated in
the countryside, in a kind of emotional autarky in fact. To live a normal
sexuality, an enriching affectivity supposes emotional and sexual relations
satisfactory in quality and... in quantity. In a community, in our AIDS
generation, to find the other or the others, is not obvious. Is it necessary for
a little tenderness, to make 1 hour of road, or to live castrated as a hermit
?
If
the Community ones in relation of couple have by definition what is necessary
for them, it is not the same single people who must :
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That is to say to find elsewhere what they do not find in the community,
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That is to say to find in the community of what and which to share love
and tenderness
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That is to say to live in castrated by making a cross on tenderness, and
to consider that love and sexuality became of no importance for them.
2.1.4.
Three kinds of people
One
can say that there is in community, three kinds of people :
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Holding of the traditional couple, whether they are already couples some
or single people.
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Holding of an emotional and sexual freedom, and holding them of the
"open" couple
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Without opinion, often with affectivity at rest and lack of lived in love
We already described the
traditional couple
and the
open couple.
It
is necessary here to understand by traditional couple, certainly an emotional
relation privileged between two people, but especially a state of mind which
creates at a person a position of not-autonomy of action. Each element of the
couple lives in symbiosis with the other. Almost the whole of time, it feels the
jealousy when the other made a meeting, it saw the other as being its property,
of which it has exclusive pleasure and usufruct. This right of exclusiveness on
the other, it calls it " confidence " or " fidelity "
That
(that) which saw differently (= in couple "open" or alone)
understood that possessiveness and jealousy are neuroses
which are looked after.
It meets the others according to its mood, with simple tenderness or great dash
of the heart. It is spontaneous and
is given. If it wants of sexual
meeting with the other, it follows its desire, knowing that its privileged
relation of couple will be enriched by it and merrier.
Implicitly
the couple element differently is expressed as follows :
" Your
capacity of life is so rich and large that I cannot nor do not have to be VERY
for you. You must express and live your desires and your needs, even if I am not
able to satisfy them personally. To like, it is to let BE the different one "
Projetorgone
wishes to gather people having this capacity of freedom in love joined to the
capacity to create durable plural emotional ties.
The
practice teaches that there is long-term incompatibility between the people of
the type " couples traditional " wishing to remain it, and
people of the type " differently. "